Women deserve better than lazy, intentionally uncharitable readings of half-a-century-old songs for their feminist causes. People, romance and sexuality are complex.

In the wake of the Harvey Weinstein scandal, thinkpiece after thinkpiece has been published about how men everywhere can improve their behaviour — as if to suggest that if only men were snapping at their male coworkers for making sexist jokes, then Weinstein wouldn't have gotten away with what he did.