Lisa Sharpe sought help for her 18-year-old son. He's now charged in her death
Friends say she was a loving mother who worried about son's mental health
- On Nov. 30, 2023, Trey Gagnon pleaded guilty to the lesser charge of manslaughter and was sentenced to 12 years in prison by Ontario Court Justice Jeffery Richardson.
- With credit for time served in pre-sentence custody, it works out to about another 10.5 years.
Friends of a woman killed in Eganville last week say she was a popular daycare worker and loving mother who struggled at times to deal with her son, the 18-year-old man charged in her death.
Police found the body of Lisa Sharpe, 48, inside her home in the Township of Bonnechere Valley, Ont., on Jan. 25. Her son Trey Gagnon has been charged with second-degree murder.
Emily Petrini-Woolley was a high school co-op student placed at Ketcha Star Daycare when she met Sharpe, a longtime employee at the centre about 130 kilometres west of Ottawa.
Petrini-Woolley said it was under Sharpe's kind, caring and expert influence that she decided to study early childhood education at Algonquin College.
The two formed a friendship that continued even after Petrini-Woolley, now 29, left Ketcha Star.
Sharpe joined her younger friend for her two separate wedding services, one minor and one more lavish, split up to accommodate the COVID-19 pandemic.
"She was a special part of our life," said Petrini-Woolley.
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Tensions between mother and son
Petrini-Woolley said Sharpe would often come to her home and visit her young family, though she noted Sharpe was often ill at ease and preoccupied with the strain of raising her own son.
Kaitlyn Luckovitch, another friend of Sharpe's who sometimes worked with her at the daycare, said she also recalled her former co-worker describing problems at home.
"She did talk about it a little bit at work," Luckovitch said.
She described Gagnon as having a short fuse and sometimes being verbally abusive, though she believed he was never physically violent with Sharpe in the past.
Luckovitch said that based on her conversations with Sharpe, there appeared to be an escalating pattern of conflict between the two.
Several people who knew the family told CBC News they believed Gagnon had been diagnosed with a behavioural or developmental disorder.
Gagnon's lawyer said it's too early to comment on behalf of his client.
The accused has not had his day in court and has not been found guilty of any crime.
'She wanted people to help her son'
Luckovtich said around Christmas, Sharpe and Gagnon's relationship frayed.
She said she believed the two fought over Gagnon's mental health and his behaviour, which was causing Sharpe considerable stress.
Both of Sharpe's friends recalled how she told them about an incident around the holidays when Gagnon smashed his mother's phone and took her car without permission.
Sharpe took her son to Ottawa to be assessed at a hospital by mental health professionals, her friends said. They said the teen was promptly released afterward.
Petrini-Woolley said the decision left Sharpe dumbfounded.
"She couldn't believe it," Petrini-Woolley said. "She wanted people to help her son, not to take him for a day and then send him home."
It was a lot to take on for Sharpe, who worked two jobs: four days a week at the daycare and one day at a chiropractor's office in the village.
"I knew she was stressed. She always seemed stressed," said Petrini-Woolley.
Petrini-Woolley said she also suffered from anxiety during the pandemic and found resources hard to access in the wider region of Renfrew County.
She said she hopes Sharpe's death will usher in changes in the mental health care system.
"Lisa did try to get her son help," she said, through tears. "Why, or how, can this happen? … It needs to be addressed. It's not right."
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