All Our Ordinary Stories by Teresa Wong

A graphic memoir about a daughter struggling to connect with her immigrant parents

Image | BOOK COVER: All Our Ordinary Stories by Teresa Wong

(Arsenal Pulp Press)

Beginning with her mother's stroke in 2014, Teresa Wong takes us on a moving journey through time and place to locate the beginnings of the disconnection she feels from her parents. Through a series of stories — some epic, like her mother and father's daring escapes from communes during China's Cultural Revolution, and some banal, like her quitting Chinese school to watch Saturday morning cartoons — Wong carefully examines the cultural, historical, language, and personality barriers to intimacy in her family, seeking answers to the questions "Where did I come from?" and "Where are we going?" At the same time, she discovers how storytelling can bridge distances and help make sense of a life.
A book for children of immigrants trying to honour their parents' pasts while also making a different kind of future for themselves, All Our Ordinary Stories is poignant in its understated yet nuanced depictions of complicated family dynamics. Wong's memoir is a heartfelt exploration of identity and inheritance, as well as a testament to the transformative power of stories both told and untold. (From Arsenal Pulp Press)
All Our Ordinary Stories is on the longlist for Canada Reads 2025. The final five books and the panellists who chose them will be revealed on Jan. 23, 2025.
Wong is the Calgary-based author of the graphic memoir Dear Scarlet, which was on the Canada Reads longlist in 2020 and a finalist for the City of Calgary W.O. Mitchell Book Prize. Her work has appeared in The Believer, The New Yorker, McSweeney's and The Walrus. CBC Books named her a writer to watch in 2019.

What Teresa Wong is proud of in All Our Ordinary Stories

"I'm really proud that I was able to kind of put all these stories down and uncover as much as I actually did," said Wong in an interview on Bookends with Mattea Roach.
In making the book, I was kind of making myself, in a way. - Teresa Wong
"In making the book, I was kind of making myself, in a way, shoring myself up in terms of understanding that these stories, these people, they contribute to who I am as a person and that I can draw on them, for examples of resilience and courage, but also learn from their mistakes as well."

Interviews with Teresa Wong

Media Audio | Bookends with Mattea Roach : Teresa Wong: Illustrating her family's past — in all its ordinary and epic moments

Caption: In the graphic memoir All Our Ordinary Stories, Teresa Wong uses spare black-and-white illustrations and thought-provoking prose to unpack how intergenerational trauma and resilience can shape our identities. Teresa and Mattea Roach discuss the art of cartooning and the intricate, often challenging journey of piecing together family history.

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