Grief white by Kerry Ryan

Grief white was inspired by a friend's death and the impossibility of daily life in the face of loss

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Caption: Kerry Ryan is a poet from Winnipeg. (Jeope Wolfe)

Winnipeg writer Kerry Ryan has made the 2022 CBC Poetry Prize shortlist for Grief white.
She will receive $1,000 from the Canada Council for the Arts(external link) and her work has been published on CBC Books(external link).
The winner of the 2022 CBC Poetry Prize will be announced on Nov. 24. They will receive $6,000 from the Canada Council for the Arts(external link), have their work published on CBC Books(external link) and will attend a two-week writing residency at the Banff Centre for the Arts and Creativity(external link).
Ryan has published two books of poetry: The Sleeping Life and Vs., which was a finalist for the Acorn-Plantos Award for People's Poetry. Her third poetry collection, Diagnosing Minor Illness in Children, is forthcoming in spring 2023. Ryan was previously longlisted for the CBC Poetry Prize in 2020 for Driver's Seat & Grief Knot.
Grief white was inspired by a friend's death and the emotional aftermath that comes with dealing with such loss, Ryan told CBC Books(external link).
I wrote this poem to record the time around my friend's death and my experience of grief and dislocation. - Kerry Ryan
"I wrote this poem to record the time around my friend's death and my experience of grief and dislocation. Mundane chores and making decisions seem ridiculous and impossible in the face of loss. Writing this poem, making art out of something so senseless, was a way of grounding myself. And I can't help but think my friend would have been tickled pink to have found her way into a poem!"
LISTEN: Kerry Ryan's interview with CBC Manitoba's Weekend Morning Show
You can read Grief white below.

Snow relentless as a haunting, this winter a permanent emergency.
My friend is dead and now I'm supposed to choose a shade
of white for our walls. Crystalline, frostline. These fresh
first hours I still believe I can undo it, yank her back over
that indisputable border. Apparition, white wisp. Instead, I walk
the frozen river and lose perspective: air, ground, every swatch
identical. Like flour, sugar, salt, in the mixing bowl, each erases
the last. Overcast, opaline. I'm snowblind. The whole slow
winter has been like this: coats of opaque, impossible
piled on impossible. Face iced over, I guess where to place my feet,
trust boot treads. Glacier, mountain top, mirage. A mutual friend
says this is why his people bury their beloved within the day –
so those who remain can be relieved of the crushing failure
to undo, rescue. The last time I saw my beautiful friend, she wore a toque
indoors. She, who was made of heat, of sun-pumped earth,
spent her final days unable to get warm. White down, soft chamois,
sheep's wool. I imagine my way up footholds shoveled into riverbank,
lean my faith into snow and memory. Whisper, fog mist, breath.
White isn't even colour, it's absence. Powder, bone, chalk.
The most important thing she said to me I hold against my skin to keep
from freezing. Alabaster, ivory. I can't see anything anymore.

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About the 2022 CBC Poetry Prize

The winner of the 2022 CBC Poetry Prize will receive $6,000 from the Canada Council for the Arts(external link), have their work published on CBC Books(external link) and attend a two-week writing residency at the Banff Centre for the Arts and Creativity(external link). Four finalists will each receive $1,000 from the Canada Council for the Arts(external link) and have their work published on CBC Books(external link).
The 2023 CBC Nonfiction Prize will open in January. The 2023 CBC Poetry Prize will open in April.